South Jersey Matchmakers |How to Be Irresistible to Him

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So, you’ve met a guy who you can’t get enough of. Charming good looks, great personality and a smile that just makes your heart melt.

You want him to like you too, but how? When it comes to bagging your crush, the devil is in the detail. Here are top 5 ways to become irresistible to him.

Today our matchmakers are going to show how to be irresistible to him and make him yours forever.

1) Be Confidence


We love a guy who is confident and sure of himself. It shows us he’s a go-getter, assertive and comfortable in his own skin which is very attractive.

The same goes for the gentleman, ladies! Man or woman, confidence is sexy. Period.

Men are naturally drawn to a woman with confidence. It shows we’re self-assured and not afraid to go for what we want in life. Confidence is charismatic, and people are naturally drawn to that.

If you’re confident, or just faking it until you make it, it shows your crush you can handle yourself and comfortable in your own skin and mind. Men love that!

2) Wear a nice scent


This one’s a given. Crush or no crush, we should all be taking care of our personal hygiene. Showering, deodorant, you know the drill!

It’s a fact of life that we all love nice smells, and if it’s on someone we’re attracted to it makes them ten times more attractive!

Studies and surveys showed that vanilla was one of men’s favorite scents on a woman, along with spicy, light floral scents. Dab a little perfume on places like your neck, the insides of your wrists, elbows, and behind the ears. Like us girls, guys love a woman who smells good.

Don’t go overboard, though! You don’t want him to be hit with a wall of strong perfume. From experience, it doesn’t go down well!

3) Don’t be afraid to talk to him


Yes, I know it’s scary. We’ve all been there. But if you want to take that leap of faith from admiring a hottie whose name you don’t even know to a potential boyfriend, you’re going to have to talk to them at some point!

An important part of anything developing in to dating or a fully fledged relationship is getting to know the person you’re interest in.

Like any relationship we form, be it friendship or otherwise, getting to know each other takes time. So don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation if you can and get to know the man you’re crushing on so badly. You never know, you guys might have some things in common!

4) Compliment him when you can


It’s always nice when out of the blue, someone pays us a compliment. It makes us feel good and reinforces good self-esteem. The same goes for the guys too, ladies!
Like us, men like to feel appreciated and understood.

So if there’s something you really like about him, say his great sense of style or he’s a brilliant conversationalist, let him know! For example:

“Nice shirt.”
“I love your sense of humor. You’re so funny!”
“You’ve got great taste in music!”

It will not only make him feel good, it’ll make him remember you and want to talk to you more. You two may find some common ground to bond over. Maybe you like the same band or have the same favorite sports team! Just don’t go overboard though as that can come across as creepy or desperate!

5) Always Smile!


Remember the phrase, “smile and the world smiles with you”?

When we smile, endorphins are released in to our bodies. Endorphins make us happy and happiness is contagious. Like how we yawn when someone else does, when someone smiles, most of the time we can’t help but smile too.

Not only does a smile make a general conversation more pleasant, it opens up our body language, makes us appear friendly and approachable, sending out positive vibes that naturally draw people in.

And let’s face it, we’ve all gone weak at the knees for someone with a killer smile!
So don’t be afraid to show those pearly whites!

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