Dating Resolutions Singles in New Jersey Should Start in 2018

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Navigating the difficult waters of an ever-thinning dating pool requires a lot of efforts, and even that doesn’t guarantee you a good date.  Should you agree to go out with Mike or Sharon when you can spend a perfectly good Thursday lounging in your PJs and enjoying a good book with some cheese and wine?  There’s also a new episode of The Walking Dead on TV.  The list of excuses goes on.

If you are ready to make 2018 the year you finally find love, it’s time to do things differently this year.  Today, our South Jersey Matchmakers will show you a few healthy dating resolutions to adopt in 2018.

  1. Put Yourself Out There


We know how scary it is to get your heart broken, and putting yourself out there is one of the most difficult parts of dating, especially if you’re used to being taken advantage of.  That being said, it’s the only way you’re going to find love.

Being vulnerable in a relationship means being genuine, even if someone can hurt you.  If you separate your feelings from the relationship, then you’ll never know if you’re happy, if you like the person, or if there are red flags.  So put yourself out there and learn to be vulnerable.  The reward?  Love.

  1. Say Yes to 2nd Dates


This dating rule forces you to look beyond often misguided first impressions.  We want you to really get to know them before dismissing them.  When you let go of  first date jitters, you can actually connect with someone.  This is why you need to say yes to second dates to get to know them better.  If you go out with someone and felt like they were a five or a six, it will be better the second time around.  Really, first dates are always nerve-wracking, so give them the benefit of the doubt and say yes to a second date.

  1. Do It for Yourself


Dating isn’t just about finding the person of your dreams or your life partner.  It’s also about building your confidence, learning to become vulnerable, and getting to know different people.  You should start dating for yourself.

Remember that dating is supposed to be fun.  It isn’t a race to the end of the aisle.  View dating as a way of learning about yourself and try to meet some very cool people along the way.

  1. Try a New Approach to Dating


You’re literally holding the key to your love life right on your phone.  You can make an appointment with one of our matchmakers today and find out how easy it is to meet like-minded singles in New Jersey.  With help from our matchmakers, you can start meeting new people who are serious about dating and finding love.  The best part of all is that you don’t have to put yourself out there because our matchmakers will do the hard work for you.  View this as the best investment you can make in yourself.

The new year gives you a blank page, so how is your love story going to read?  We hope that you can adopt these dating resolutions, so you can finally find love in 2018.  We wish you a wonderful year ahead!

If you’re ready for a fresh approach to your dating life, contact our Portland matchmakers today and let us show you a whole new way of dating.  We provide a timesaving, efficient, and sophisticated way of meeting relationship-minded singles in Portland.  To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!